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Lanesha Shanell's avatar

I really appreciate how clearly you structured this. It’s practical, not just inspirational and that matters.

Coaching Horror Story

One lesson I learned the hard way was this:

Just because someone is successful doesn’t mean they are assigned to steward my vision.

I once invested in a program that was strategically sound, but it required me to contort what I felt led to build into something more marketable, louder, and faster. Nothing about it was “bad.” It just wasn’t aligned.

The pressure to optimize replaced the posture of obedience.

The real cost wasn’t just financial. It was the internal confusion that followed. I had to untangle what was truly mine to carry from what I adopted because it worked for someone else.

Lesson:

If a coaching container requires you to override your convictions to succeed inside it, it’s not aligned, no matter how impressive the results look.

Byrt Mallanyk's avatar

Marlena, this is a vital word. We often forget that 'making God the CEO' can just be another way of trying to manage Him. There’s a deeper, more disruptive victory that only comes when we stop using Him as a consultant and start yielding to Him as the Source.

That 'school of hard knocks' tuition is steep, but it thins out the ego beautifully. I’ve found that the simple act of 'Praying Before You Work' isn't just about efficiency, it’s a holy dispossession. It’s telling our own ambition to sit in the passenger seat so His Spirit can actually breathe through our work.

One habit I’ve leaned into to keep the 'Source' at the center is the Noonday Descent. I stop regularly at a certain day of the week at 12:00 (or thereabouts) for five minutes of absolute silence (aware of His presence), no petitions, no shop-talk, just a quiet 'undoing' of my own agenda. It’s amazing how much 'noise' that clears out for the rest of my afternoon.

Cheering you on as you lead others back to the true Centre!

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